Not that it was ever off, but I've been engaged for over a year and- after a few false starts- haven't made any plans for a wedding...until now. My hesitancy had nothing to do with Matt (all is good) and everything to do with bigger picture issues about where I am in my life.
I've blogged about my late 20's angst before and it appears nothing brings that out quite like a wedding. Because a wedding is a big deal. It's one of those now-I'm-an-adult kind of moments, and the thing is that I really didn't/don't feel like an adult. Money is a big part of that. Career is a big part of that. Vacation days, 401k's and dental insurance are parts of that. It was hard to think about planning a wedding/honeymoon and know that I would have zero paid vacation days off work to enjoy it. And while I haven't attained adult-like levels of success in any of those areas, I'm closer than I was last year. So let the wedding blogging resume! First up dresses...